At the time my wife told me that I had better find a hobby soon. She told me that when she and my daughter start to cycle together my life will be a living Hell! Soon after that conversation I found the sport to Kite Surfing. So much fun, and progression, kind of like a drug. When we went on vacation together is was just hanging out on the beach getting sun burned. Screw that I wanted to be active and do something. We started taking separate vacations I went kiting all over the place by myself and my friends. She always refered to it as "Stupid Kite Boarding".
Every time I would get on Kite forum she would give me shit about it saying "So whats going with your Stupid Kite Boarding friends.
Well on July 10th after 16 yrs of marriage she gave me an ultimatum: either I change (i.e. quite kite boarding) or we are getting a divorce......
I am currently single and living by myself and have been getting it really good at the coast lately.
During one of our last conversations she said "If it wasnt for stupid Kite Boarding we would still be together"
She just does not get it