Kind of funny story.

I just started kiting and have only been out 5 times so far three of those times were lessons. Today I was launching from Kite beach, and my wife was helping me launch. Of course she is brand new too, only done it twice now. Well she picked the kite up strange and ended up getting down wind of the kite, of course getting it all wrapped around her. I know this is not good, but there wasn't much I could do to help.

The crazy thing is that there were three guys standing about three feet away from her, just watching. They were toooooooo cool to help a newbie. Then this guy yells at them "hey, aren't you going to help her" and they still just stood there. So I yelled at them " hey, could you help her out." So this guy walks over all huffy and helped. He got me launched and I had a great time playing around in the waves for my first time.

I just can't stand that you have to rely on other people in this sport, and that it seems like no one really wants to help you. I've heard that maybe Naish beach is a little more friendly, but I've been apprehensive to try a new beach when I'm so new. I guess I'll try it anyway.

Thanks for listening.

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sorry bro to hear that. I feel ya. I havent really experienced that but I will say a big confidence booster was when I learned how to self land and launch. That way I know even if the people on the beach fail; I can take care of myself.

If you have only kited 5 times then launching at Naish beach is great advice, especially if you are coming to grips with going upwind...I would launch at Old Man's at the top of the kiting area and.... people will launch you! You can't hang out at lesson land forever!

Just out of curiosity, how old were these guys?

BTW. It is perfectly easy to self-launch and land all you want and it is 100% reliable provided you have decent technique and practice it. It's still good form to offer to help people if you can.

I'm guessing late 20's early 30's... I think one of them was an instructor. The instructor was the one that ended up helping me, which I think was very nice, but it's too bad it takes so long to get a little help. Seems like instructors would be the first to come running when they see something dangerous. Especially when they only have to take a few steps to help.

I guess I'll try moving up the beach a little. I'd like to try and learn how to launch and land myself, but I'd like to get a few pointers first. I've asked a bit on here, and I think I have some ideas how it's done. I should just go try and do it.

that s why i stick with my foils, i dont have to ask for help because, i m alone most of the time or peeps dunno how to launch a kite or land a kite or want to help or stand still doing nothing...i d rather count on myself than on someone.

This is the reason, they didn't dare to help... a brand new wife of someone else ... do not touch / help; can be very dangerous...

Now serious: the least thing they could do is help her (and you).
What helps is to first turn the kite and give it to your wife the way she only needs to hold it and release when you're ready. Then go to your bar and prepare to launch, take good position so there will be no presure in the kite, when ready Thumb up and your wife will let go.
This works good with my wife (not new.. to the sport)

With foils it easier to self launch and land but on a crowded spot also difficult.

they should have helped immediately.

Many people do help. Never mind the idiots who don't do...they are not worth our time typing here.

Make sure you always help to be better then they are.

I used foils extensively for 5 years (and test rider for a manufacturer) and people helped me all the time. Most people would do the right thing and grab fabric and hang on until I ran up to take the kite from them. It was always funny when some guys would grab the middle of the leading edge and try to roll it over.

I switched to bows when they got good. Launching a bow is as easy as a foil, if not easier. Self-landing a bow is by far the easiest and safest of any kite. Far easier than a foil, especially in strong winds.