Could anyone recommend somewhere to take my family where I can kitesurf, but they can do other things

My wishlist would include;
Nice reliable wind (but not nuking)
Waist deep smooth water (no monster shore dump)
Hotel (all inclusive) on the beach, or at worst a very short walk
Things for children (creche, activities, for a 9yr & 5yr old)
Things for the wife (pool, yoga, excursions that kind of stuff you know...)
nice warm water
Not mega expensive
Sorry to ask but I don't know where to start.
Too much choice & have never had such a holiday before.
Thanks in advance

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